the whatsapp tone

I was talking to my friend about a breakup, because my friend was going through in a way a situation before a breakup, like he wants to end it but at the same time he doesn't want to let go. I remember telling him that I know exactly how he feels because I was going through the same situation that he was and that everything will be okay.

It's funny how my friend said that in order to make the 'breakup' easier (following my advice), the deletion of the number would be made of the contact that my friend wishes to forget to make him avoid any temptations of further contact. My friend inessa would totally disagree with me saying that this wouldn't be a healthy option.

Well, from my previous 'relationships', I did just that. I removed any traces of things that will remind me of my ex. Like deleting my ex from my facebook account, deleting their number, etc. It's true that it's not a healthy option. That's why I changed it, I don't remove everything about my ex. I justy remove thing that I feel will make me contact my ex. I deleted the number. But I didn't block my ex. I deleted message history, but I didn't remove them from facebook.

But during this delete number phase, we all hope to hear one sound, the one that comes from the person we're trying to forget. Even though I am better now and I have re-saved the contact of the person I wish to forget, but during out 'good' time we kept contact through whatsapp. So even now, when someone else sends me a whatsapp message and that tone comes up, I will think of the person that I once dated and somehow, I would wish it was that person.

Its like if you two talked on the phone before, when your ring tone goes off you would think of that person first, or when you sms, you would think of that person first when the sms comes in. I hope that my friend will end up well, I'm still moving forward, even though I still miss my friend from kk, I can say that I'm confident enough to put the number back into my phone.

Because I know for a fact that it's over. And that I won't really be as sad as I was when it was ending. I'm not exactly happy now, but I'm not devastated either. I still miss that person dearly. But when things are meant to work out, they will (with dedication and hard work of course!)

Xoxo

Jeffrey james

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