I was talking to my best friend about relationships. From what I know her relationship seems stable. And I somehow envy her cause she has an understanding with her boyfriend.
I am now in a relationship, and I am known as a serial dater. But with this new relationship that I'm getting into, well, it can get emotionally draining. However, I am happy. I'm learning to adapt to this relationship and I am learning from my past mistakes. Like I try not to take things too personally and I try my best to let things go. Like I used to get angered by the smallest things, especially when they don't go my way.
But now I just take it in, breath for awhile, and let it go. Especially if it's something small.
I'm not saying that I'm perfect now but I am trying to work on it. Because in a relationship we work on the relationship and work on ourselves, not really for the other person, but to make us a better and more understanding person.
I'm doing this for myself because everyday is a new experience for me and I am learning more as I go deeper into this relationship. I really care for my partner and I really want to make this work. And so far, I can say that it's going reasonably well:)
xoxo
Jeffrey James
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