MMOM- Change the Way You Think About Rape: Acquaintance Rape Is A Crime!

[OK so a fraternity surveys its members to find out who they want to rape. (link is at bottom of post) And can anyone say this is not a problem?]
The MMOM Movement has a simple goal: change the way people think about rape.
Our own K-State Wildcats Against Rape and many many other groups have similar goals.

Please check them out: Here are some excerpts from theMOMM  website.

"...It's time to start exposing date rape for what it is: a crime. It's not a "hook up that crossed the line." It's not just "inappropriate" or "her fault too" because she consented to other acts before. No still means no, regardless of what she said yes to before. This epidemic will not be cured by mace and self defense alone. Though well intended, these methods create the expectation for women to prevent rape instead of holding men accountable to not rape. Lets take the blame off the victim and put the shame on the perpetrator.
By joining this movement, you are reinforcing the truth that there is no shame in being a victim. You are telling the world you refuse to tolerate rape and victim blaming. You are committing to no longer turn your back to this issue. Why? Because a campus without rape shouldnt be a privilege...."
 and
 "...I don’t like the way our society reacts to sexual assault so my film partner and I decided to make a documentary. Our film, “Miniskirts, Mace and Other Misconceptions” (MMOM) dares to change our culture. The creation of this film introduced me to my passion, journalism and my purpose, advocacy. I graduate from the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga this December with a degree in Public Administration Nonprofit Management and Communications. I am pursuing a career in journalism and spearheading this movement. Join me!

 The Mission of the MMOM Movement is:
To confront sexual assault by starting conversations on college campuses and in our communities to:

•Challenge victim blaming and rape supportive attitudes
•Empower victims
•Educate
•Raise awareness

They have good links on the page, as well.
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W.A.R.: Founding Mission Statement: We all want to live in a society where we are able to trust, be trusted and live outside the confinements of fear.  W.A.R. members are taking the initiative to challenge the current environment where 1 out of 4 college women will suffer a rape or attempted rape between the ages of 13 and college graduation. We, K-State men and women, are ready to have our voice heard in the community.

Because of our dedication to nonviolent ideals, W.A.R. has chosen the
representation of Tiananmen Square to illustrate our mission. In 1989 hundreds of college students in Beijing were massacred for nonviolently protesting injustices within their government. When the tanks began
arriving at the scene of the protest, one man stood at the front of the tanks to stop their progression. This one man held up a line of over 17 tanks for a significant period of time. He didn’t carry a weapon.To learn more about this
http://news.bbc.co.uk/onthisday/hi/dates/stories/june/4/newsid_2496000/2496277.stm

Although our name is W.A.R. we are a nonviolent culture-change group. We are not out to patrol the streets, place blame, or 'get those rapists.' Our goal is to change the part of our culture that makes it acceptable for people to take control away from others and behave in a violent, selfish way. W.A.R. may be a small group of individuals but ideals of peace and nonviolence is what gives us hope and strength.



A K-Stater's story about Acquaintance rape: HERE
and the trauma of crime HERE

by the way,
ALL RAPISTS ARE SERIAL RAPISTS. click HERE

if you don't think this is a problem, read this:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/higher-education/national-fraternity-investigating-vt-chapter-that-asked-members-who-they-would-like-to-rape/2011/12/14/gIQAS2a9tO_story.html?tid=pm_national_pop

"...MONTPELIER, Vt. — A University of Vermont fraternity has been suspended while school officials, national organization leaders and police investigate allegations that a survey was circulated among members asking them who they would like to rape.

Members of the Sigma Phi Epsilon chapter would not discuss the allegations Wednesday..."

Oh, Really?
Fu'Cryin'Out LOUD

http://marysbeagooddogblog.blogspot.com/2011/11/rape-reports-are-everywhere-what-do-you.html

Don't Be a Friendly Person: WE HAVE TO BE BITCHES TO THE WHOLE WORLD OR ELSE NO ONE WILL BELIEVE OUR RAPE CRIES.

20/20 had a show tonight http://abcnews.go.com/2020/ April 1, 2011   about a dogged man tracking down a violent horrific cool cucumber wolf in sheep's clothing:
rape and murder,
committed with utter calmness and fooling the law enforcement--
the PI tracker detective-y guy shows what happens when you pay attention to detail. hotel video. solving an unsolved crime.
During the show, i was moved by the constant background noise from the law enforcement
of
WE CANNOT MAKE THIS CASE,
there is not enough evidence,
 because jurors will think
" it is a case of "
HE SAID SHE SAID

please, think about what this means.

WE HAVE TO BE BITCHES TO THE WHOLE WORLD OR ELSE NO ONE WILL BELIEVE OUR RAPE CRIES.


She chatted at the dry cleaners   or

She helped him with his flat tire

She interacted with him at the hotel bar about the playoff game on TV

She let him in the door for coffee

She accepted a ride

• She let him buy dinner

She accepted an offer for a drink

She let him in the door

She shared an elevator and spoke nicely with him

elevator door car door apartment door

human door

She opened her human door

READ THIS

TO UNDERSTAND

screen door

freshly washed hair

eye makeup

mouthwash

she was asking for it

he said she said


So
It will be a case of he said she said.
We trust our women less than our men.

 Love one another.

As I have loved you, so you must love one another (John

13:34). But I tell you who hear me:

Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,

bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you (Luke 6:27-28).

They
Always Say the sex is consensual    after
First
lying and saying No, one has Never Seen Her Before;
oops
then  saying ok seen her before
 But No Touch     oops lying

OK touched but It Was Consensual
that is,
 Lied
Lied Lied
But this last one is truth
"He said She said"
What he said the fourth time around must be believable.

You gonna believe some lyin'sheep!?

Them sheep is damn liars!

We believe our women  less than our FOUR TIME
 lying men.
Kobe anyone?

 

Men-- how do you feel about your male friends who lie until they are caught, then a new story til it falls apart, then a final story? Do you believe your wolfy friends? Do they  have a reputation amongst the group?
On a jury, do you find it a case of HE SAID SHE SAID? or do you know he is guilty?

Like Dark Side of the Moon is the end, literary summation

The culture the music the poetry the sociopolital interpretation

Wish you were here

yeah the personal wrap up friendship

Comfortably numb the structural wrap-ups\but

Jesus most recently had it right. love forgive mercy

Gandhi King the news tonight. hey all you cultures:

please.

This rioting over book burning

Use

Read a little Gandhi

id

Stop the idmadness of your violence

Turn the other cheek

Love your enemy

But Of Course we believe his lie
he was only lying to Protect His Wife
from the Pain of Finding Out he was
                Lying about being Faithful to her.
Uh


and
friday night part two (i'm a great date)
Need to Know


why we do what we do
test yourself:

 you are on a runaway train; four people ahead on the tracks are getting ready to die as you plow into them.
do you Pull The Lever
which moves the train onto a side Spur, where there is only one man standing, or not?
86 % say sacrifice the one to save the four.

but there is a part 2 to the experiment.
so you can watch it here unless you can wait a few hours for me to update this post and put it into succinct words, because this second part will Blow Your Mind.
It will challenge your thinkking for a bit.

OK part TWO:
Now, same train, same four people getting ready to get smashed, but no spur or fork in the track. No lever to pull.
Instead, you are on a bridge just over the tracks, right over the tracks where the train will come. and a big man is standing on the railing overlooking the tracks. If you push him over the railing, his big body will land in the tracks and when the train comes, his bulk will stop the train. Yes, he will die. The four will live.
So
Do you push him on over?

Watch the full episode. See more Need To Know.

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