Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Reality Check. (A Jeffrey James Honest Conversation)

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
you know what ness

Inessa says:
what?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I feel like not continuing next Semester

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and work for my mom

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
haha

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
cause I got a feeling that I can do a wayyyyy better job running the business than
she does


Inessa says:
wy dont u teransfer first

Inessa says:
then figure whether ur unhappy because of ur place or because of studying

Inessa says:
but working for her is not the same as taking over

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I'm unhappy because Im not making any money

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I would work for her first

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
get trained to know about the company

Inessa says:
takes a while to make money jay

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and then I take over

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
trust me, you dont know my mom

Inessa says:
i guess u can

Inessa says:
i dont know of course

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
She is the dumbest woman in terms of business ever

Inessa says:
but this is a big decision

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and im saying this from the bottom of my heart

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
my sisters say that too

Inessa says:
n i know it wont just affect ur mom.. but everyone else in the fami8ly

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
yea i know

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
But I am willing to make a deal

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I got until March next year

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
so I will make a deal to pull the sales up by March or Feb la

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
if I fail, then I continue studying

Inessa says:
jay

Inessa says:
i say u finish ur studies

Inessa says:
n then do that

Inessa says:
u have a habit of starting and not completing

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
you know the company is being run to the ground now?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and my mom refuses to let my dad run

Inessa says:
complete ur studies.. evne if its just foundation or watever

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
my foundation finishes when I leave

Inessa says:
doesnt matter

Inessa says:
its her responsibility

Inessa says:
she sucks

Inessa says:
but

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I finish my foundation already

Inessa says:
it gives better time for u only after

Inessa says:
to pull it up

Inessa says:
then i think go to lim kok wing

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
i don't think the company can last four years

Inessa says:
university is a life that u will always reminsce about

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
i don't think the company can even last three

Inessa says:
work for it during the holidays

Inessa says:
for now

Inessa says:
ur only proving u wont make a good leader

Inessa says:
ur proving it to me

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
well, I can't sleep at night thinking about it

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but I will discuss with my sisters la

Inessa says:
doesnt make mean its a rational decision

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
hopefully im getting a dean's list this semester!

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
im so excited about that!

Inessa says:
jsut because ur uinhappy in uni, doesnt mean its more excusable to go back n take
over


Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
hahaha

Inessa says:
wats that?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
Dean's list?

Inessa says:
yeah

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
as in if that particular subject you scored the highest you will get it

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
haha

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
so im hoping that My ecs gets it, cause I got a HD for my Ecs

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
hahaha

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
anyways, back to the discussion

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I will talk about that when Im back in kk la, cause I am worried about the company etc

Inessa says:
from the bottom of my heart, i think it is very irresponsible. and irrational to discontinue ur
studies

Inessa says:
its fully understandable u want to take over.. but at this time.. its nto adviasable

Inessa says:
advisable

Inessa says:
sure right now, u know more than ur mother, but i rather u know 3 yrs worth of uni education.. to apply it to ur mother's busimness

Inessa says:
and fluorish it from scratch

Inessa says:
not only will u see how much u influence and progress u have input in it, the rest will.

Inessa says:
when u discontinue ur studies, what does that mean of u? u may discontinue ur mother's
business.

Inessa says:
of course u wont.. but what signals nad messages are u gonna send without meaning to?

Inessa says:
uve written articles, uve gone on diets, how many have u completed when u said u would and how many have u left aside?

Inessa says:
merely 18, uve got to grow up, slowly.

Inessa says:
dont start something u cant and are not capable of finishing

Inessa says:
im being honest. and i know u agree.

Inessa says:
i am in full support of ur taking over, i jsut dont think this is the right time.

Inessa says:
discuss with ur sisters

Inessa says:
i am quite sure? they may also say similar things

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I just sent her an email

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
let me explain to you my idea

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I will have eight months

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
eight months to make sure that the company don't depend on just one staff

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
ONE ness

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
who is a newly wed

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
who can leave at any time

Inessa says:
who is this?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
my mom doesn't at all know how to do the staff's job

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
i told her to get a few more in case

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
she enver listened

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
she is focusing on the house

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
so, my idea was that

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
go back

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
get trained by this staff, know how to do the job in every sense

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
company standings etc

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
hire another two or three staff

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
set up a small concept

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and make sure the business can run without much help from my mom or me

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I dont initially plan on taking over till i die, just to make sure it can run without much help later

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
just like what my dad did before he left

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but my mom wont let my dad touch the business

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
even though when he takes over, it will make HUGE amounts of money

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
though I dont plan on making as much as him, I just want to be able to be secured in UNi,
knowing that if we run out of money, and I have to stop half way

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
it would be much worse then rite?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
The company was making almost a million a year when my dad was running it

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
half a million a year when he left it for billy to run

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and then now, it's making about a quarter of a million with my mom running it and it's going down, and down and down

Inessa says:
i see where ur coming from

Inessa says:
i know ur passion for ur family's business

Inessa says:
i am only saying.. udont have the experience to just quit ur studies now

Inessa says:
sure u can tag along the staff and learnt from toe to brain

Inessa says:
but what makes u so confident they r capable of teaching?

Inessa says:
wouldnt u rather use wat u have learnt in the modern world.. among modern potential businessmen to ur mother's input?

Inessa says:
u r simply underestimating the situation just because.. i feel.. u dont want to study anymore

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I want to study

Inessa says:
and i think.. al ot of this.. is because of being in miri

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I just dont like studying without having money

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
no

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I dont mind studying in Miri

Inessa says:
then jay

Inessa says:
wat the fuck r u doing

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
If i had my car

Inessa says:
do an apprenticeship

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
If i had money

Inessa says:
get paid

Inessa says:
while being in pratice

Inessa says:
i dont mind if u dont go to uni

Inessa says:
but fuck me.. learn something becfore u take over

Inessa says:
that is all my concern is

Inessa says:
go to kl

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
yea, which is why, I'm going to train

Inessa says:
be an apprentice

Inessa says:
and go ahead

Inessa says:
dont train in ur mother;'s business

Inessa says:
they suck in the first place.. wat makes u think they're training u would help u run the business better?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
you can put it this way, my dad has been constantly lecturing me about how to run or do business since I was 10

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
because their Job is an Easy job, as in the staff's job

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
they don't have any educaton at all except Spm

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
it's like a routine

Inessa says:
yeah

Inessa says:
so why botyher?!

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I can master it in two weeks, or a month tops

Inessa says:
bother*

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
well, because my mom isnt doing anything about it

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
she is a born mother, a born housewife

Inessa says:
dont bother ;earning wat they have to do

Inessa says:
learn to be a leader of a business thats wat u should

Inessa says:
u know the foundation iof it all

Inessa says:
ur wasting time

Inessa says:
and money

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I get where you're coming from

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and I totally understand

Inessa says:
just watching them fora while all to be disappinted in the end cuz it wouldnt make a difference

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
because this is what I would advice another person to do

Inessa says:
but u know more than me right?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
as in when Ian told me he was gonna drop out of college half way

Inessa says:
about ur mother and about the business?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but, I'm not dropping off half way at all

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I got my foundation cert, which is like A levels

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
it isnt enough

Inessa says:
u are.

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but thats all what I'm paying for

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
to complete that course

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I am not doing a first or second year degree and stopping

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
if i stop like that half way

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I dont get any cert

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but now, I am getting something

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and could always continue into first year degree

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I know education is important, very important, I need that piece of paper

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but like you said, we need to learn how to be leaders

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but even if you did graduate with a degree

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
you won't be a leader immeadiately

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
etc

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
you still have to learn

Inessa says:
jay

Inessa says:
ur missing the point of having thart piece of paper

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
maybe i can look at this as an 8 month internship

Inessa says:
u r simple looking at the after math of graduating..

Inessa says:
what i mean is

Inessa says:
ALL of that u learn in the 3 yrs... is gonna shape u who u are

Inessa says:
all of that u need to know about surviving SMARTLY in the world.. and efficicuiebntly..

Inessa says:
ur learning in those 3 yrs

Inessa says:
u wont be leaders immediately

Inessa says:
but going out with a degree.. is the time for u to show everyone else... wat uve learnt.. how uve
learnt... and convince bosses... wat a boss u are

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
yea, i understand where you're coming from

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but you are forgetting the other side

Inessa says:
the mnoney?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I totally understand the benefits of getting the degree

Inessa says:
u dont want to stop half way?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
no

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
not the money

Inessa says:
wat is this other side?

Inessa says:
because to me... ur trying to find excuses to support u discontinuign

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
the sense that whereby you assume that by going into business without any form of education, the chances of failing would be high

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I can continue

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but I want to be able to be secure

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I want to not worry about money

Inessa says:
u want to make money

Inessa says:
and be secure

Inessa says:
i kow

Inessa says:
know

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I want to have money in my pocket

Inessa says:
ur gonnaget that next yr by taking over?

Inessa says:
u have money in ur pocket... who r u kidding jay

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I dont

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
you know ness

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I havent eaten in four days

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I have no money in my account

Inessa says:
ur mother sent u to miri.. in the first place.. was for u to get teriar education.... meaning she is
prepared to send u

Inessa says:
thats because ur mone forgot to send u mone

Inessa says:
money*

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
my mom isnt covering for me

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
my sister is paying for my education

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
she only covered last semester

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
until the company didnt make enough to support me

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
i dont want to tell any of you these things

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I am here not because my mom is paying

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I am here because my sister is

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
my mom cant afford to send me to study anymore

Inessa says:
see. there r alays people to back u up

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
so? she sold of three cars

Inessa says:
but of course not right now when ur not eating

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
three cars

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and i don't want to depend on my sister

Inessa says:
jay

Inessa says:
jay

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
Ness, I'm not in your financial standing

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and what if Kimmy has to go study next year?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
you think my sister can afford to send two people

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
no way man

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
no way man

Inessa says:
jay

Inessa says:
knowing all these

Inessa says:
wat r u doing traveling around and going for holidays?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
well, you can put it this way

Inessa says:
if u want to start... why nt start by not spending so much on luxurious trips

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I actually planned on not going to kl anymore

Inessa says:
and?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but since we made this promise, I have to abide by it

Inessa says:
singapore?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I wanna actually just buy my ticket and go back straight from here

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
and not go to kl at all

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
I actually wanna do that now

Inessa says:
does jen know about ur dilemma?

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
no she doesnt

Jeffrey James' Phone Got Stolen and is happy with exams! says:
but she has her own dilemmas too

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