This is a post that is in a way related to a post that a friend of mine posted up in her blog a couple of days ago. Well, a couple of weeks ago to be more precise. My friend was quite pissed off at herself and her ex because of something she heard about him that made her seem in a way like a fool. However, she argued that it also made her appreciate what she has now.
Though I will agree that it is normal to appreciate what you've got when you know how bad you got it before or how other people are not as lucky as you as well.
Last saturday I met up with an ex of mine called Kissing you (See previous post for references), and well, it was nice seeing kissing you again because it's been quite awhile since we last saw each other. I was generally happy that kissing you was doing well in kissing you's life but when it comes to other things, i'd rather not know. It is true that when you break up with someone, gossips will start coming in like nobody's business. Like a friend will say yada yada yada, I heard this person was like this or that. And I don't like hearing those things.
I generally tend to block those things out, whether it's true or not, I'd rather not know. I don't ask who my exes are dating, I don't ask about their private lives, I don't really want to know what other people think of my exes, whether it ended badly or not, I generally don't want to think about them in that way. I just like the image of you know, we got along at some point as lovers, maybe as friends, without the complications of a relationships, we could get along as well.
But as far as my exes' past, present or future love lives, I'd rather not know. Because it's better to save myself the trouble of feeling like a fool for knowing these petty things and just worry about my own personal problem or appreciate how lovely my life is now:)
xoxo
Jeffrey James
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